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Apr 16, 2019
Brenda Smyth
Listening is the most-used communication skill we have—used more than writing, reading or speaking.
Yet how many of us put any effort into becoming better at it? Ever taken a course in high school or college on listening? Probably not … because we all think we’re pretty good at it already.
Listening deserves some attention and some effort. Our brains are moving at a speed much faster than anyone can talk. The radio industry knows this. That’s why they air commercials that have been sped up for the time segments intended to fit. We hear and understand 400 words per minute. The average person speaks about 125 words per minute. That time difference can be part of the problem, giving your brain a lot of time to wander all over the place while it’s hearing. This wandering means most of us are never fully engaged with the information we hear, so our retention will be low–25 percent retention after 48 hours.
Really listening takes REAL effort. It takes focus and attention. It’s hard work.
You can’t afford to have so-so listening skills. But great listening only comes with practice and attention. It’s not difficult. But mindful listening is an intentional process.
Brenda Smyth
Brenda Smyth is supervisor of content creation at SkillPath. Drawing from 20-plus years of business and management experience, her writings have appeared on Forbes.com, Entrepreneur.com and Training Industry Magazine.
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