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Feb 27, 2019
Michele Markey, CEO of SkillPath
March is Women's Month on our SkillPath editorial calendar, so we'd like to re-post one of our favorite blogs from Michele Markey, our VP of Training Operations, to kick things off a couple days early. (That's how much we love Michele. We can't wait to share her stuff with you if you haven't already read it!) Enjoy this post from 2018 and thanks for reading! Dan Rose, Content Manager
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“I have never met a woman, or man, who stated emphatically, ‘Yes, I have it all.’ Because no matter what any of us has—and how grateful we are for what we have—no one has it all.” This Sheryl Sandberg quote reminds us that the concept of work-life balance as an ideal to strive for is overrated and that’s OK.
The very notion of having it all indicates that we have to make time for everything.
So rather than striving to have it all, perhaps success is really about identifying the things that are most important to us and adjusting to make room for those things.
Thinking about starting your own business can be thrilling—a new set of challenges, exciting possibilities and the opportunity to stretch by pushing your boundaries out of the everyday predictable. There’s so much to look forward to.
And yet, making things work takes some juggling. Successful entrepreneurs will tell you that owning a business is not a 9 to 5 proposition. They also say that doing what they love, creating their own “thing” is more important to them than anything else—they wouldn’t have it any other way.
Whether your ideal world includes running your own business while meeting family requirements, supporting charitable activities, participating in community activities or pursuing a hobby, we all need to find a way to make room for things that are important to us. You can make it happen by making deliberate choices and letting go of time- and energy-consuming things that are not priorities. This is true whether you are an entrepreneur or an employee.
Maria Flynn, CEO of Orbis Biosciences, does a masterful job by making room in her life for the things that are important and staying true to her vision. While running a successful company, Flynn is also the mother of two young children and is active in the entrepreneur community.
Flynn attributes much of her ability to balance what she loves, to growing up in a household where her parents were busy running three business while caring for a family and being involved in the community. “My parents taxied me in the first years, older brothers in my early years, mom’s employees in the middle years and grandma sprinkled in between. There were more than a few days when I wondered who was picking me up. I was often the last kid.” While other people cringe at the thought, she recalls the experience as character building—giving her time to daydream, build relationships and juggle competing demands.
And the character building didn’t stop there, her parents made their children part of the business, teaching them to do inventory, work with finicky customers, deliver packages, paint fences, take responsibility for the auger at harvest time and anything else a kid can do.
She considers the work-life balance discussion laughable. “There is no work-life balance—just a life that you love.” Everyone juggles differently based on what’s important to you. “If you hear yourself saying, ‘there is never a good time,’ then fight to make it happen,” Flynn suggests.
Are you living your life in accordance with your core values? According to the Vail Leadership Institute (VLI), core values are those that you treasure—the things that you would die for, or, alternatively, live for. Choices include things such as happiness, friendship, community, challenge, freedom and family. There are many online exercises available to help you pinpoint a few key values. Once identified, moving forward with the real spirit of “balance” or “having it all” truly makes sense.
Michele Markey
CEO of SkillPath
Michele Markey is the CEO of SkillPath. A leader in the learning and development industry since 1989, SkillPath delivers more than 16,000 training sessions each year and has enriched the professional and personal lives of more than 10 million individuals worldwide.
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